While I was on vacation in Montana, our good friend Father Joe passed.
What a remarkable servant of God he was.
I first met Father Joe in 1985 and several years later was honored to represent him in a lawsuit to recover funds from his insurance company for environmental cleanup costs at what is now known as “Father Joe’s Village” in downtown San Diego.
His leadership in serving the homeless in San Diego inspired Julie and me to become involved in helping the homeless in our community, including a 20 plus year commitment to The Monarch School (where Julie eventually became head of the Board), Julie’s commitment to develop affordable housing (most recently on the Wakeland Board: www.wakelandhdc.com)), Feeding San Diego, Pro-Kids, Veteran’s Village and, of course, support for his efforts.
There simply was no finer role model than Father Joe and no one in the United States who accomplished more for the homeless during his lifetime.
He was not a cream puff or an enabler: he always pushed those around him to do more and demanded that the homeless who lived in his many sanctuaries followed the rules, which included no drugs or alcohol. As a result, he did not just “house” homeless or “feed” homeless (although he did that too in numbers that were in the many thousands every month for decades): he transformed them into productive members of society and saved their lives.
One of his favorite stories was about how this tough love approach worked: typically a homeless person would drop by one of his shelters for a meal and ask if they could move in to one of his housing facilities. When he said yes “but” then explained the aforementioned “house rules” they would leave. But more often than not they would return on a cold or rainy day and say “okay” I will follow the rules, please let me in and he would. This cycle repeated itself thousands of times with countless lost souls who were saved. Of course, some weren’t but his success rate was unmatched by any homeless support group and led to national recognition for his efforts. It also led to one of his favorite prayers: “Dear God let it rain every day in San Diego!” He often said his best friends were rain and cold weather.
He was also remarkable for two other reasons: first, he was not only a charismatic leader and relentless fundraiser, he was a great executive and developed a core of outstanding individuals to run his vast organization and planned wisely for his own succession. The organization is well positioned to serve and grow far into the future because of his efforts. He would have been a great C.E.O had he gone into the business world instead of the ministry. Second, he courageously fought years of debilitating physical infirmities brought on by his diabetes with the same gusto and good cheer that he brought to his work for the homeless. As a result, he lived far longer than even his own doctors expected and despite his infirmities continued to work for the homeless in his “retirement.” In fact, “retirement” was not in his DNA: he was constantly doing stuff – good stuff, meaningful stuff, but in the process also enjoying life to the fullest.
In my book, he should be sainted: he was right up there with Mother Theresa.
The following tribute to Father Joe appeared in The San Diego Union earlier this week and is re-printed here. Frankly, as nice a tribute as it is, it barely scratches the surface of this giant’s life. Father Joe, we will miss you and San Diego and the homeless here are eternally indebted to you for your decades of inspired leadership.
Father Joe Carroll, legendary ‘Hustler Priest’ devoted to helping the homeless, dies at 80. Carroll spent 30 years raising tens of millions for network of services.
By John Wilkens
Published July 11, 2021; updated July 14, 2021
San Diego Union Tribune
Father Joe Carroll, a cheerful Catholic priest whose 40-year devotion to helping the homeless raised tens of millions of dollars and turned him into a San Diego icon, died Saturday night after a lengthy battle with diabetes. He was 80.
Known fondly as the “Hustler Priest,” Carroll took what had been a small charity handing out peanut butter sandwiches downtown in the early 1980s and turned it into an assistance network for the poor that won awards and drew national media attention.
Now called Father Joe’s Villages, it provides housing, food, health care, education, vocational training and other services to thousands of people annually.
“This guy touched more lives, did more good for more people, than any San Diegan has ever done,” said David Malcolm, a businessman and philanthropist who served on the villages’ board for 31 years. He said Carroll died at home in the East Village, where he had been in hospice care after a recent hospitalization.
Carroll built the homeless organization and made himself a household name through a steady stream of public and private appearances that used humor as a fundraising lubricant. He starred in TV commercials that baldly told viewers, “I want to hustle you out of some money.” He allowed himself to be caricatured on a bobblehead doll, holding a fistful of dollars.
And he avoided using the title “monsignor,” an honorific bestowed by bishops in recognition of exceptional service.
“Everybody wants to help poor Father Joe,” he told the Union-Tribune in a 2011 interview. “Monsignor Carroll? Who’s that? Anybody who knows anything about marketing knows you don’t want to confuse the message.”
Carroll was born on April 12, 1941, in the Bronx, where his entrepreneurial and religious leanings took root early.
He was the fourth of eight children born to Irish-Catholic immigrant parents, a father who did day labor and a mother who cleaned offices. Money was tight. He got his first job, in a neighborhood butcher shop, when he was 8. Later he sold Christmas trees and fixed laundry machines.
The local parish was a block away, and Carroll spent many hours there — as an altar boy, in the Boy Scouts, playing sports. Strong at math, an able leader, he developed a reputation as a “goody-goody,” in his words. Everybody told him he would grow up to be a priest.
But he resisted the idea. When he was in his early 20s, he moved to Southern California to escape the cold New York winters and took a job working in a market. One day, while sitting on a bench waiting for a friend, a priest walked by. They started talking.
“Next thing you know,” Carroll later recalled, “I was enrolled in the seminary.”
This was at St. John’s, in Camarillo, where Carroll was put in charge of the small bookstore. He added TVs, shoes and other merchandise to the inventory, boosting the shop’s profit but drawing frowns from administrators who concluded he was overly interested in material gain. They expelled him.
Deacon Jim Vargas, CEO of Father Joe’s Villages, on the San Diego News Fix: “They said I’d be the kind of priest who would sell gold-framed baptismal certificates,” Carroll said. “Hey, if it helps raise money for the church….”
After a short break, he resumed his studies through the University of San Diego and was ordained in 1974. Eight years later, he was working at St. Rita Catholic Church in Valencia Park, content to be a parish priest, when he was summoned to a meeting with Bishop Leo Maher.
The person running St. Vincent de Paul, a thrift store downtown, was retiring. When Maher sought a replacement, he asked members of his clergy personnel board for the name of the biggest go-getter in the diocese. Everybody had the same answer: Father Joe.
Carroll was given a choice. He could take over St. Vincent’s, or move to a parish in the desert, in Needles. He did not want to go to Needles.
The thrift store had a parking lot nearby that Carroll was tasked with turning into a homeless center. The plan he came up with represented a new approach.
Existing services were scattered around downtown. Why, he wondered, is the health clinic in one place, vocational training in another, and the shelter elsewhere?
He wanted a “one-stop shop,” and over time that’s what he got. St. Vincent’s acquired a property here, a property there, eventually taking over about four blocks in East Village.
Not everyone welcomed the expansion or his comprehensive approach. There were occasional public spats with elected officials who saw the free meals and other programs as enabling homelessness instead of curbing it.
Some property owners and downtown residents felt trampled by what one called Carroll’s “zeal to get what he wanted.” Other homeless-service providers grumbled about his “big dog” status with government funders and wealthy private donors such as Joan Kroc, the McDonald’s heiress.
But even the critics respected his success, admired the way he merged the holy with the human, the collar with the quip. Carroll’s smiling gift of gab at society galas and charity auctions tickled funny bones and opened wallets. He once talked a cop who was giving him a ticket for speeding into making a donation.
“He can squeeze money out of a rock,” Monsignor Dennis Mikulanis, a longtime friend, once said.
Every winter, a familiar joke got told, sometimes by Carroll himself: “You know it’s really cold out when Father Joe has his hands in his own pockets.”
Carroll was a fixture on local television and in Union-Tribune columns that highlighted the goings-on of local movers and shakers. He said the opening prayers at countless community events.
Everywhere he went, he urged people to see the homeless as neighbors who were down on their luck, not as deranged or dangerous drifters, and he rejected the idea that they should be housed in rundown buildings. Nice surroundings — courtyards with fountains, beds instead of cots — “send the message that you’re on your way up,” he said.
That approach generated a dig once from the Wall Street Journal, which called the St. Vincent center “Father Joe’s Country Club.” But it also brought plaudits, including a World Habitat Award in 1988 that said the services offered and the environment created enabled clients to “return to mainstream society with self-assurance and dignity.”
And it drew national media attention from “60 Minutes” and Reader’s Digest.
Carroll took his fundraising appeals nationwide, too, in TV commercials asking for donations of used cars, trucks, boats and airplanes. He became so recognizable that people in restaurants and other places asked to have their pictures taken with him. Some were surprised to learn he was a priest, not an actor playing one.
When he wasn’t working, Carroll liked to travel, especially to professional baseball stadiums and on cruises. He stayed active in the Boy Scouts. He gambled occasionally, for entertainment.
He misplaced his white clerical collar so often that his staff bought them in bulk, 100 at a time.
Before health problems curtailed his social life, he hosted parties where the main dish was the cioppino he made. His favorite drink was Pepsi.
He collected Nativity sets, too, amassing about 700 of them — creches made out of wood, metal, stone, cloth. He was fond of ones featuring animals instead of humans because, in his words, “We’re all God’s creatures.”
For many years, the Nativity sets were kept in display cases at St. Vincent’s administrative offices, and the public was invited in during the Christmas season for open houses — where, of course, Carroll asked for donations to help the homeless.
By the time he retired in 2011, on his 70th birthday, St. Vincent de Paul Village had spun off from the diocese into an independent nonprofit with its own governing board. It had about 500 employees and a budget of $40 million.
Even as he stepped away from full-time involvement with the organization, he remained its public face, in fundraising mailers and elsewhere. In 2015 it was renamed in his honor: Father Joe’s Villages.
Diabetes led to amputations of both feet in recent years, and it curtailed his eyesight — but not his zest for telling stories. Earlier this year, he published a memoir, “Father Joe.” In it, he said he’d already written the epitaph for his gravestone, a simple nod to his life’s work: “He was a good priest.”
Information about survivors was not immediately available.
PS: My favorite memory of Father Joe was talking baseball with him. He was a diehard Yankee fan growing up in New York as a poor kid from the Bronx. Later, he was a big Padres fan. On an exceptionally hot summer day in Cooperstown in 2007, we sat together while Tony Gwynn and Cal Ripken Jr. were inducted into the Hall of Fame. We were proud to be part of a small San Diego contingent that made the trip east to honor our hero and I was worried he was going to faint because of the heat, humidity and his black clothes. After getting him several bottles of cold water he said: “Jim, please stop, I don’t want to have to take a pee break and miss Tony’s speech!” One of the highlights of that day was at the conclusion of Tony’s speech, when the thousands of Baltimore fans that drove up that day for Cal’s induction stood and gave Tony a heartfelt and lengthy ovation. They recognized that he embodied the same wonderful qualities that made them love Cal so much. We both were deeply moved by that outpouring of affection. Last week, I have to believe there were a lot of tears shed in San Diego at the news this beloved servant of God had passed, but also a lot of smiles for the joy he brought to all of us.
R.I.P. Well done, my friend.